Hey! Losing weight can be really hard for anyone. And I know you may be tempted to resort to unhealthy quick fixes. But those typically do more harm than good. The key to losing weight is finding a good balance. Where you're eating healthier foods, but also making sure you're exercising as well.
As far as diets go, you're best trying to eat many small meals throughout the day. That will keep you more satisfied so you'll feel less of an urge to binge. Drastically reducing your diet will only make you want to binge, which isn't good. Try to eat smaller portions when you do eat. And make sure you're eating good filler foods, which are nutritious and fill you up, but they aren't full of bad calories. Carry healthy snacks with you to much on. Like carrot stick or a ziploc bag of cheerios. In addition, drink plenty of water. It helps you feel more satisfied without eating tons of food. And when you eat, eat a certain portion and feel like having seconds, go do something. Stay distracted for 15-20 minutes and see if you still want more after. The key isn't starving yourself, it's just not eating more than you need. And eating nutritious foods instead of candy, chips, etc.
As far as exercising goes, cardio will help you slim down a lot. Start walking and then jogging when walking is easy for you. That's great cardio which will help you feel good. Then sit ups will help you a lot with your abs area. This site(click) has great exercises to help improve your chest. :)
Try to stay motivated too. Don't get discouraged quickly. You'll see results as long as you're determined and stick with it. If you have any close friends, maybe ask them to be your exercise buddy and you can keep each other motivated.
Good luck! You can do this.
Post edited at 12:34 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 by audrey820
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